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Post by shadowbite on May 16, 2012 11:48:04 GMT
You guys are all awesome within this group so i feel comfortable with expressing myself  This is just a message showing that for whoever is feeling heartbroken or sad because your major crush has rejected you, trust me, the pain will disappear over time You just have to stay true to yourself and dont allow jealousy, anger, depression, or any negative feeling enter your heart! For example, my first major crush ''the one'' always filled my heart with happiness anytime she was around me (and this crush started since the 7th grade! i am now 20 and currently going to college) In my eyes she was perfect in every way :') 4 years later i finally summoned the courage to tell her how i felt. She replied, ''im sorry i just dont see you that way....we'll always be friends though'' my world turned dark and my heart shattered. I wouldnt eat, sleep, play video games, or talk to my family and friends....Basically I was miserable. (Now we skip a year in this story) so its 12th grade and I told my miserable self, ''HEY, while she is happy having a good time, im moping and sobbing? whats wrong with me? I just have to move on!'' So i started distracting myself from the pain and kept busy by working out and practicing on my art! One day, the ''one'' came over to me while i was waiting for my ride after school and she said, '' listen, i know i said a long time ago that i didnt like you, but truth is i secretly had a crush on you.'' So then i said lets go out then  ...she replied, '' Sorry im currently seeing someone right now''.......Did it bother me? of course....Did i let that get me down....NO! Point is: you just have to stay strong hearted and keep busy to distract yourself from the pain! So yeah only reason for bringing this up is cuz my friend is going through the same situation as i was, and I hate when i see people get heartbroken  So just thought id share my past situation with any of you who are feeling this way right now and hope it helps you guys out and if you guys have really no one to talk to about your heart break, you can always ask me for advice, i'll try the best i can to help you guys out :3 |
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Post by Deleted on May 16, 2012 20:03:33 GMT
Its always good to be open and I think everyone at this point has heart break to share.
Theres a girl I like at the moment... and for once a real one. Problem is, liking her doesn't really seem to be the best idea. Oh well, technically I'm still debating it but the idea grows on me...
Unfortunately I've already missed out on my opportunity of going to prom at all, as I (purposefully) missed handing in ticket money.
I'm not regretting not going but I am regretting not asking her, even if she said no which she's pretty much said twice even though I haven't directly asked her.
So yeah thats my romantic situation right now, although I really wouldn't call it a ROMANTIC situation per say.
Regardless, like you said I'll be moving on and this didn't bother me too much to begin with.
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Post by Stove on May 16, 2012 21:33:16 GMT
I didn't nessecarily have a girl reject me, no, I got the girl of my dreams.
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Post by Death Eye on May 17, 2012 5:30:56 GMT
You guys are all awesome within this group so i feel comfortable with expressing myself This is just a message showing that for whoever is feeling heartbroken or sad because your major crush has rejected you, trust me, the pain will disappear over time You just have to stay true to yourself and dont allow jealousy, anger, depression, or any negative feeling enter your heart! For example, my first major crush ''the one'' always filled my heart with happiness anytime she was around me (and this crush started since the 7th grade! i am now 20 and currently going to college) In my eyes she was perfect in every way :') 4 years later i finally summoned the courage to tell her how i felt. She replied, ''im sorry i just dont see you that way....we'll always be friends though'' my world turned dark and my heart shattered. I wouldnt eat, sleep, play video games, or talk to my family and friends....Basically I was miserable. (Now we skip a year in this story) so its 12th grade and I told my miserable self, ''HEY, while she is happy having a good time, im moping and sobbing? whats wrong with me? I just have to move on!'' So i started distracting myself from the pain and kept busy by working out and practicing on my art! One day, the ''one'' came over to me while i was waiting for my ride after school and she said, '' listen, i know i said a long time ago that i didnt like you, but truth is i secretly had a crush on you.'' So then i said lets go out then ...she replied, '' Sorry im currently seeing someone right now''.......Did it bother me? of course....Did i let that get me down....NO! Point is: you just have to stay strong hearted and keep busy to distract yourself from the pain! So yeah only reason for bringing this up is cuz my friend is going through the same situation as i was, and I hate when i see people get heartbroken So just thought id share my past situation with any of you who are feeling this way right now and hope it helps you guys out and if you guys have really no one to talk to about your heart break, you can always ask me for advice, i'll try the best i can to help you guys out :3 Good advice. I can vouch for the accuracy of it. At the moment I don't really have any sort of romantic situation going on, let alone a heartbreak of some kind, so it doesn't really help me personally at the moment, but good advice nevertheless. |
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Post by shadowbite on May 19, 2012 10:43:22 GMT
Its always good to be open and I think everyone at this point has heart break to share. Theres a girl I like at the moment... and for once a real one. Problem is, liking her doesn't really seem to be the best idea. Oh well, technically I'm still debating it but the idea grows on me... Unfortunately I've already missed out on my opportunity of going to prom at all, as I (purposefully) missed handing in ticket money. I'm not regretting not going but I am regretting not asking her, even if she said no which she's pretty much said twice even though I haven't directly asked her. So yeah thats my romantic situation right now, although I really wouldn't call it a ROMANTIC situation per say. Regardless, like you said I'll be moving on and this didn't bother me too much to begin with. thats good man it always feels good to move on and forget bout the past :3 but we can always hold on to the warm memories n.n |
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Post by shadowbite on May 19, 2012 10:44:50 GMT
You guys are all awesome within this group so i feel comfortable with expressing myself This is just a message showing that for whoever is feeling heartbroken or sad because your major crush has rejected you, trust me, the pain will disappear over time You just have to stay true to yourself and dont allow jealousy, anger, depression, or any negative feeling enter your heart! For example, my first major crush ''the one'' always filled my heart with happiness anytime she was around me (and this crush started since the 7th grade! i am now 20 and currently going to college) In my eyes she was perfect in every way :') 4 years later i finally summoned the courage to tell her how i felt. She replied, ''im sorry i just dont see you that way....we'll always be friends though'' my world turned dark and my heart shattered. I wouldnt eat, sleep, play video games, or talk to my family and friends....Basically I was miserable. (Now we skip a year in this story) so its 12th grade and I told my miserable self, ''HEY, while she is happy having a good time, im moping and sobbing? whats wrong with me? I just have to move on!'' So i started distracting myself from the pain and kept busy by working out and practicing on my art! One day, the ''one'' came over to me while i was waiting for my ride after school and she said, '' listen, i know i said a long time ago that i didnt like you, but truth is i secretly had a crush on you.'' So then i said lets go out then ...she replied, '' Sorry im currently seeing someone right now''.......Did it bother me? of course....Did i let that get me down....NO! Point is: you just have to stay strong hearted and keep busy to distract yourself from the pain! So yeah only reason for bringing this up is cuz my friend is going through the same situation as i was, and I hate when i see people get heartbroken So just thought id share my past situation with any of you who are feeling this way right now and hope it helps you guys out and if you guys have really no one to talk to about your heart break, you can always ask me for advice, i'll try the best i can to help you guys out :3 Good advice. I can vouch for the accuracy of it. At the moment I don't really have any sort of romantic situation going on, let alone a heartbreak of some kind, so it doesn't really help me personally at the moment, but good advice nevertheless. hey thanks man :3 i just wanna let people know that theres always hope around the corner |
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Post by shadowbite on May 19, 2012 10:45:57 GMT
I didn't nessecarily have a girl reject me, no, I got the girl of my dreams. Thats awesome man im happy for you n.n and im sure with all my heart that your the man of her dreams ;D |
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Post by Stove on May 19, 2012 12:31:11 GMT
^...I would, but she died. That's how I got my heart broken. Better than what happened to most of you since you all got rejected...   |
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Post by shadowbite on May 20, 2012 9:01:20 GMT
^...I would, but she died. That's how I got my heart broken. Better than what happened to most of you since you all got rejected... Awwwww dude im so sorry if i brought up any sad feelings i apologize if i would have known that she died I wouldnt have said anything like that man. Seriously your a strong person to have gone through your loss and I know that there is a bright future for you. Again sorry if i brought up any sad feelings that wasnt my intention at all |
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Post by Jay24092 on May 28, 2012 22:40:17 GMT
That's why they call them crushes because nearly all way someone gets emotionally crushed but love is a complex concept I have had about
11 girlfriends before I meet Becky and she is special she really is the only person who knows the real me and even with my many flaws she will all ways be there but I found Becky because I never gave up on my self or on love so never doute yourselves
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This is just a message showing that for whoever is feeling heartbroken or sad because your major crush has rejected you, trust me, the pain will disappear over time 
...she replied, '' Sorry im currently seeing someone right now''.......Did it bother me? of course....Did i let that get me down....NO! Point is: you just have to stay strong hearted and keep busy to distract yourself from the pain! So yeah only reason for bringing this up is cuz my friend is going through the same situation as i was, and I hate when i see people get heartbroken 
So just thought id share my past situation with any of you who are feeling this way right now and hope it helps you guys out 
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